Fair warning: this post may not make any sense. Bear with me.
So last night, I watched The Tao of Steve
(an indie film that won a few prizes at Sundance 5 years ago). It's a
funny film about an overweight, slightly pompous stoner who still
manages to bed his share of women by applying three lessons he claims
to be inspired by eastern philosophy. They are:
1) Be desireless - women are more comfortable when they don't feel they're being pursued, and are turned off by neediness. To paraphrase Singles,
desperation is the worst cologne (though Drakkar Noir is a close
second). Conversely, a lack of interest can be intriguing. So
eliminate your desire.
2) Be excellent - while you're being desireless, do something excellent in her presence to show you are a worthy mate.
3) Be gone -
once you've demonstrated your excellence, give her space and let her
come to you because "as Heidegger said, we pursue that which retreats
from us."
Now I'm not
advocating this as a dating philosophy (my wife claims this is how I
picked her up, but what came across as "desireless" was actually fear
intermingled with disbelief that she could possibly be attracted to
me). And the movie is ultimately about him moving past his fear of
intimacy and his shallow approach to women. But thinking about it
again today, I started to wonder if they might actually be fairly
useful maxims for brands to follow.
1) Be desireless: This I think has a few
relevant points for brands. One is in not being desperate to make a
sale. People today have such a good command of the grammar of
marketing that they can tell brands that behave confidently from brands
that are desperate for their business. Brands that always have
frequent sales and promotions and give-aways seem somewhat cheapened.
They're like a salesman on commission who's had a slow month. Russell mentions today
how newspapers' reliance on frequent give-aways to drive circulation is
often cited as proof of their inevitable decline. Marketers often talk
about how good branding means you can charge a premium price, and how
frequent sales condition people to wait for a lower price. I guess
this is a pithy way of saying that. If you want to have a strong
brand, stop begging and bribing people to buy your product. Have you
ever seen Starbucks or iPod do a 2 for 1 sale, or a "send in a UPC code
for a chance to win a trip to Disneyland" promotion? A related point
is around brand positioning, that brands should be true to themselves
and find something real within them, rather than chasing people around
with artificially pasted on 'consumer insights' which reek of being
desperate to get someone to believe in you. Believe in yourself first,
others will follow (Adam Morgan talks about this in the classic Eating the Big Fish, he calls it being a lighthouse brand).
2) Be excellent: this goes without saying,
really. With lots of choice in every category, and access to
information and opinions about brands, is there even any debate anymore
about the need to be excellent in everything from packaging to
manufacturing to communications to service to support to design? But,
as someone observes in the movie, it's important to actually be
excellent, not to talk about how excellent you are. Too many brands
seem to think just positioning yourself as excellent is sufficient. Be
excellent - give people a reason to think you're worthy.
3) Be gone: this is the idea that repeatedly
hitting people over the head with a sales message or intruding on
people's lives with urban spam is probably not the best way to engender
goodwill towards your brand. Once you've been excellent, give people
the space to enjoy it, process it, and talk about it with others. And
I suspect that makes it more likely they'll come back than reminding
them how great you are every two minutes.
I realize this is all a bit pithy and naive to the
realities of corporate economic pressures and such. But I think there's
something there, no? Anyway, it all seemed very insightful to me in
the shower this morning. Hope it makes some sense.
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